How do you speak to trauma victims? How do you carry yourself in their presence? And what do you need to give them to allow them to heal? Dr. Diane Langberg explains. And Brad Hambrick discusses the unique losses trauma victims must grieve. Plus, Dr. Jamie Aten explains why your church should be prepared to respond to disasters in your community, and how to mobilize your church … [Read more...]
Helping people avoid regrets
Care ministry shouldn't always be reactive. Done well, it also prevents people from making unwise choices. In this Care Issue, Dr. Jeff Forrey shares a framework for using wisdom to help people avoid regrets. And Dr. Steve Viars explains how to help people make honest assessments about the way they've contributed to their past suffering in order to reduce future sorrow. … [Read more...]
Responding wisely to relapse
And you thought he was doing well. But he’s relapsed—again. How do you help him deal with the shame and guilt? How do you motivate him to try again? And what about you? Are you sure you’re not the problem? Could you be providing better support for the addict? Dr. Jeff Forrey answers those and other questions. Plus, learn how to prepare families of addicts for a loved one’s … [Read more...]
Responding pastorally to addiction
This week's Care Issue helps you plan to care for an addict by explaining what addicts need and what you can and should provide. Also, Dr. Mark Shaw shares five signs that indicate that an addict has repented. And finally, Vicki Tiede reveals the common mistakes pastors make when caring for the wives of porn addicts and how to avoid those mistakes. 4 myths about the … [Read more...]
Helping others (& yourself) achieve work/life balance
They’re partners at law firms, but they never fellowship at church. They’re presidents of corporations, yet they don’t lead in the home. They’re beloved by coworkers, and missed by their children. Bottom line? They’re workaholics. So how do you help them? This week’s Care Issue shows you how. Plus, Dr. Jeff Forrey explains how you can keep from being overwhelmed by your own … [Read more...]